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smart sexy stories, essays, and poems from a kinky queer butch top

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Fix the mailing list
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I will migrate the list to a new server which will have better management for both me (as the creator) + you (as a subscriber).
Audio blog launch!
$200 per post on sugarbutch.net
I will create audio recordings of all new blog posts, so you can hear me read the essays and dirty stories I post. 
My own desk in an office
$300 per post on sugarbutch.net
I will get my own desk in a coworking artist's space! You know what that means: more smut for you!
Hire a personal assistant
$400 per post on sugarbutch.net
Hiring someone part time—and paying them a decent, living wage!—to help me get my growing amount of work done.
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About

SINCLAIR SEXSMITH is a teacher, coach, and writer specializing in sexualities, genders, and relationships. They write at sugarbutch.net since 2006, which Jiz Lee called "The world’s largest archive of kinky, queer erotica from a genderqueer, masculine of center perspective." Sinclair’s gender theory and queer erotica is widely published in anthologies and online, and they are the editor of Best Lesbian Erotica 2012 and Say Please: Lesbian BDSM Erotica, both published by Cleis Press. In 2014, Sinclair’s own Maverick Press published Sweet & Rough: Sixteen Stories of Queer Smut. They use the pronouns they, them, theirs, themself.

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Oakland, CA, USA

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Oh hey there! I'm Sinclair, and I'm a writer, teacher, and sacred intimacy coach about sexualities, genders, and relationships.

What that really means is: I got obsessed with studying sex, love, expression, and bodies, and I wrote my own way to a satisfying sex life, my own clarity around gender, and good ways to be in relationships—and I think you can, too. 

I now have a huge toolkit full of ideas of how others can study their own selves and find more satisfying erotic expression in the world, and I find my biggest pleasure when I'm supporting other people through their own moments of awakening. After years of experience in just about every subject related to this calling—writing, book publishing, graphic design, social media, producing workshops, facilitation, performing, embodiment, meditation, sex education, sacred intimacy, leather, kink, and business entrepreneur skills—I am firmly committed to continuing this path.

And I could really use your help. 

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Patreon is a way for you to pledge a certain dollar amount (you choose!) for each new, exclusive writing that I publish on Sugarbutch.net (one per week). You're charged monthly and you get to set the cap. More details on how Patreon works in the FAQ at the bottom!
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This Patreon campaign is so that I can keep my focus on the heart of Sugarbutch.net, on the heart of my business: the writing. The dirty stories, essays, gender theories, cultural observations, and musings that, if you're a reader, probably brought you to Sugarbutch in the first place. 

What's in it for you? Well, I do have some pretty sweet perks you can read about below, including access to the Patreon-only super secret backer page where I'll be sharing parts of my writing process. But bigger than that, you get to help fuel queer, whole-body, inclusively erotic movements for radical gender inclusivity and liberation. My work encourages better sex lives, better relationships, and becoming more like ourselves than we have ever been. I know that sounds like pie-in-the-sky dreaming, but what can I say. I dream big. I live my truths every day, and my art reflects that. You get to have access to even more of those examples, trials and errors, and triumphs when you support my work, and you get to be part of what fuels me to keep going, and continue putting radical, life-changing writings out into the world. 

Whether or not you pledge money here on Patreon, Sugarbutch.net is free to access and read. But pledging some money here is a small way for you to give back. 

If you enjoy my work and would like to help support it, please become a patron on Patreon. 



I’m setting up a super secret backer page for patrons where I will post photos of my handwritten notes, my plans for Sugarbutch, and snippets of stories in progress—basically, you'll get to see some of my personal, private journal. It’s a tiny, behind-the-scenes, snap shot that only you backers will see so you can follow along with my progress.

So that’s it! If you’d like to give a little back each time you read my work—whether you sneak peaks of the new posts while you're at work, or you take your iPad under the covers with you to enjoy by yourself, or you email your lover one of my stories and then have a really sexy evening together—I would absolutely appreciate your patronage. Your pledges make it easier for me to keep Sugarbutch alive.

I am so grateful that you read what I write—here, and elsewhere. Seriously, my job is better than any I could have imagined. Thank you.

XXX,
Sinclair 




FAQ: BECAUSE I LIKE TO GET INFORMED CONSENT BEFORE WE PLAY

What is Patreon and how does it work?
Patreon is kind of like Kickstarter, except instead of making one large-ish donation towards one big project (like a new book), you make recurring micro-donations for ongoing creative work. It's crowdfunding on a per-creation basis, so I get to keep doing what I do best: writing short stories and essays, and sharing them with you.

How do I become a patron? 
Enter an amount you'd like to donate per piece of writing  in the box on the upper left and click "Become A Patron." You'll receive updates of my work in your inbox, and have access to my Patreon-only super secret backer page! Depending on the pledge level you choose, you can get some additional perks, too. 

What is Sugarbutch?
I call it an "online personal writing project," and it's also known as a blog. After running a variety of online diaries since 1996, I began the Sugarbutch Chronicles project in 2006 as a way to write myself to a better sex life, to more satisfying relationships, and to figure out my kinky inclinations and my gender expression and identity. Since then, it's been many things: confidant, therapy process, creative outlet, way to connect, way to court lovers, way to express.

How often do you update? 
Weekly—either four or five times a month, depending on the month. This is new! Sugarbutch has averaged 20 posts monthly in the archives, but I have been paring down and posting fewer things of a higher quality. Less crap, more content. Less fluff, more dirty stuff. You get it.

How often am I charged?
You will be charged at the end of the month, when Patreon tallies up how many updates I posted. I'll be updating 4-5 times a month, so if you pledged $2 per update, then at the end of the month you will be charged $8-10 total. You can set a cap on how much you’re willing to be charged each month, so even if I update a million times you won’t be charged beyond your maximum amount. You can edit or cancel your pledge any time before you’re charged. 


Thank you for your support!
I really appreciate it. If you have questions about any of this, I would be glad to be in touch—I'm mrsexsmith@gmail.com. I hope you enjoy the writings.
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