Harris O'Malley

is creating a Dating Advice Blog

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Coming in at this level helps fund the site, which means you get early access to all columns and podcasts. Get tomorrow's love advice TODAY! Seem extra smart! Wow your friends!

This also gets you a virtual high-five, exchangeable at any con appearance or speaking engagement for an actual high-five. No refunds if you miss the hand and it gets all awkward. Just make sure to watch the elbow; that'll ensure you stay on target. 

Plus, you'll get a chance to help shape future columns. Is there a topic that hasn't been covered enough? Is there a specific side of dating you'd like to learn more about? This is your chance to take part in polls and suggest future subjects! 

Ask A Blogger

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This is the "Ask a Blogger" tier, where each month I will answer patron submitted questions about life as a professional blogger/YouTuber/Dating Advice Industry-person as best I can. Some of the answers may even actually be informative and helpful!

NerdLove Interns

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First, you'll get access to the Paging Dr. NerdLove Discord server, only available to the chosen few, the proud, the NerdLove Interns and Residents.

Second, you also get exclusive Patron-only content every month! Get an extra episode of the podcast that only Patrons get to hear!

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About Harris O'Malley

Hey there, welcome to my Patreon page. For those of you who don't know me and stumbled on this at random - and how'd you manage that, anyway? - my name is Harris O'Malley and I write Paging Dr. NerdLove, a dating advice blog for nerds of all stripes. You may also have seen my writing elsewhere - perhaps the The Good Men Project or my bi-weekly column at Kotaku. I've also written a few dating advice books

So, I'll keep this short and sweet: think of this as a virtual tip-jar. If you like my work or if it's helped you or a someone you know... well, if you'd like to support me and keep things going, I'd appreciate it. This helps keep the virtual - and literal - lights on, helping me come to more conventions and fund some really awesome upcoming DNL-related projects. I'd love for you to be a part of it. 

For those of you who've been with me since the beginning to everyone who's just now joining me, all I can say is thank you. I can't do this without you. 
$369.52 of $500 per month
At this level, I'll branch out a bit further, with the YouTube channel and the podcast. The podcast will have longer episodes, with special guests. Perhaps Learn From This returns as a YouTube series! Or perhaps The Dr. NerdLoveLine, with regular guests to help take some of your questions!

(Outside contractual factors may come into play here. Shhhh, it's a secret to everybody!)

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