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Sexuality is our entire sense of being. It is our emotions, thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors related to one’s gender, who we are attracted to, our relationship to pleasure, pain and power and how we live in our body.

Sexuality and gender is the WHOLE-Self. 

The WHOLE-Self is informed by one's lived experience.

One's lived experience (i.e. intersectionality) honors the overlap of one's identity (i.e. race, culture, gender, class, ability, religion/spirituality) with systems/institutions of oppression (i.e. power) affects the lived experience of a person (i.e. their point of view/POV).

Framed within a healing justice lens, get the latest sexual healing essays about The WHOLE-Self touching a variety of topics like sexuality, gender, race, desirability, sexual healing, and sexual pleasure by Queen and other Healing The Erotic Self contributors.
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The Erotic Self is the embodiment of your spiritual, sexual, mental, emotional, physical, & metaphysical/energetic selvies.

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Discussing ancestral and contemporary erotic energy work for queer and non-queer Black women, femmes, & folx.

Topics will include but not limited to healing as a lifestyle, the erotic & aging, spirituality, plant medicine, cannabis & pop culture, and other sexy tings...

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About Healing The Erotic Self

Centering Ourselves in the Journey towards Sexual Healing & Sexual Liberation

Join Clinical Somatic Sexologist & Erotic Life Coach Mx. Lena Queen, LCSW, M.Ed. (she/they/SistaSexologist) as she and the rest of their community venture to provide a sacred space that centers the erotic healing experience of queer and non-queer Black & of Color womxn, femmes, & folx. 

The Lens:
Our conversations & reflections are intersectional, sex-positive, pleasure-centered, & queer, trans, & kink-affirming. 

The Framework:
In our healing, we center our reclamation of sexual, spiritual, cultural, and other indigenous healing practices with radical honesty.

The Embodiment:
With radical authenticity, we are sexual-spiritual and spiritual-sexual beings taking, creating, & embracing sacred spaces for our healing.

We are reclaiming our relationship to pleasure, improving our relationship to our intuition, & honoring the relationship between sexuality and spirituality.


In this community, we believe in:

1. Healing is both individual and collective. 
2. Sensuality as self-care. 
3.The erotic as the embodiment of our lived experience.
4. The importance of joy in healing.
5. Embodying pleasure.
6. The reciprocity of emotional labor,
7. The power of vulnerability,
8. Being uninhibited in our pursuit our needs & our desires

and most importantly,

Understanding The Erotic Self as the embodiment of our WHOLE-Self.

"Black & of Color women, femmes, & folks are seeking healing & liberation that is rooted in healing our bodies informed by our lived experience to our relationship to pleasure, pain, & power & the reclamation of our indigenous healing & spiritual practices."
- Mx. Lena Queen, LCSW, M.Ed.

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