Loving BDSM

is creating content about power exchange relationships.

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Proud Crickets

$2
per month

YOU are a proud cricket! That's why you're here!  For joining us and supporting the work we do, you get virtual squishy boob hugs, access to the behind the scenes podcast, monthly live Q&A, and early access to video content. You also get a special discount code (and more savings) on any sale we run for our online shops. Sales happen throughout the year.


You will be charged when you first sign up & then on the 1st of every month going forward. You can stop at any time.

Includes Discord benefits

Focused Crickets

$5
per month

You get virtual squishy boob hugs, the other stuff, and the ability to suggest podcast and video topics. We'll do this in the form of polls and open calls for topic suggestions.


You will be charged when you first sign up & then on the 1st of every month going forward. You can stop at any time.

Includes Discord benefits

Questioning Crickets

$10
per month

You get the virtual hugs, the access to the podcast and videos, and the rest of it PLUS you can submit your questions for our live Q&A early and be guaranteed a response to your question! Even if you can't make the live stream, your question will be answered so you get the info even when you watch later!


You will be charged when you first sign up & then on the 1st of every month going forward. You can stop at any time.

Includes Discord benefits

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patrons

$778

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About Loving BDSM

Loving BDSM is the love child of Kayla Lords and John Brownstone. We help kinksters like you have happy, healthy power exchange relationships. And becoming one of kinky patrons helps us do that, so thank you!

How do we do what we do? Let us count the ways...

  • Weekly podcast episodes that are live streamed on YouTube
  • Weekly (mostly) educational videos on YouTube
  • The Loving BDSM website
  • Answering dozens of DMs and emails from kinksters seeking advice and guidance
What can we do with more help? More short-form podcast episodes, more website content, more videos, more time to answer questions, more, more, more. 

We would do this whether we made money from it or not, but the reality is that all of this takes time and money. Which is why we appreciate our kinky patrons/#proudcrickets so damn much!

We hope you'll help us continue to spread good information about kink and BDSM, share more smut, and help as many people as possible.
Goals
217 of 500 patrons
Once we're here, we can start to add closed captions to old videos and transcriptions for podcast episodes. We can also add another type of content to our week -- podcast, video? Not sure yet, but something. We'll let you help us figure that out!
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