Loving BDSM

is creating content about D/s, BDSM, and kink.

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Proud Crickets
$2
per month

YOU are a proud cricket! That's why you're here!  For joining us and supporting the work we do, you get virtual squishy boob hugs, access to the behind the scenes podcast, monthly live Q&A, and early access to video content. You also get a special discount code (and more savings) on any sale we run for our online shops. Sales happen throughout the year.


You will be charged when you first sign up & then on the 1st of every month going forward. You can stop at any time.

Includes Discord benefits
Focused Crickets
Limited (26 of 75 remaining)
$5
per month

You get virtual squishy boob hugs, the other stuff, and the ability to suggest podcast and video topics. We'll do this in the form of polls and open calls for topic suggestions.


You will be charged when you first sign up & then on the 1st of every month going forward. You can stop at any time.

Includes Discord benefits
Questioning Crickets
Limited (21 of 50 remaining)
$10
per month

You get the virtual hugs, the access to the podcast and videos, and the rest of it PLUS you can submit your questions for our live Q&A early and be guaranteed a response to your question! Even if you can't make the live stream, your question will be answered so you get the info even when you watch later!


You will be charged when you first sign up & then on the 1st of every month going forward. You can stop at any time.

Includes Discord benefits

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patrons

$723

per month

About

Loving BDSM is the love child of Kayla Lords and John Brownstone. We live and love the BDSM lifestyle, and we want to share the things we've figured out through trial and error from kink to relationships to communication skills. The fantasy of BDSM is great, but it's the reality we all have to live with. We help people have happier, healthier, and better D/s relationships and BDSM experiences. And becoming one of kinky patrons helps us do that, so thank you!

We would do this whether we made money from it or not, but the reality is that all of this takes time and money. And we need your help.

We appreciate your support and hope you'll help us continue to spread good information about kink and BDSM, share more smut, and help as many people as possible.
Goals
$723 of $1,000 per month
At this level, Kayla can give up most of her vanilla (non-sex) freelance writing clients and focus more time creating content.
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