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Lonely Heart

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You like us! You really like us! Y'all, in this tier you get:
  • One (1) Weekly BONUS Podcast where we reach into the the trash and discover a vintage episode of the 90 Day Fiancé Multiverse. Yes, we've never seen these classic seasons before--so it's like we're 90 Day Virgins. (Poodle made Mattie type that...she's never been a virgin).
  • All the "90 Day Gays Presentation" BINGES: Whether it's "Love Is Blind," "Tiger King," "Too Hot to Handle," or FOX's "Labor of Love," these limited series' are just too TERRIBLE to pass up! Although the first two episodes are normally in the regular feed, the rest of the series is Patreon only! 
  • 10% OFF Merch Store (code will be emailed)
  • Advanced Presales for live shows and special events
  • All Bonus Episodes are ad-free.

Don't Pull Over!

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Don't Pull Over! It's just more PREMIUM 90DG content coming at you! In this tier, you get  EVERYTHING in the Lonely Heart tier, PLUS:
  • All our "Love After Lockup" episodes!  Yes, ya'll asked, and finally we CAVED! We're starting out on Season 3, but plan to go back and cover previous seasons as well. Lord help, this show is TRASH (and we love it!)
  • All the BICUROUS podcast episodes! Yes, our ridiculous GayDD is your gain! From "Welcome to Plathville" to "Married at First Sight" to "The Bachelor: Listen to Your Heart"--we've got a one-off of every kind of TV garbage you could want. Right now we're doing ONE (1) of these a month, but once we hit a threshold for this tier, we'll be doing TWO a month! 
  • 15% OFF Merch Store (Code will be emailed)
  • EVERYTHING in the previous tier

Come At Us!

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Oh, you thirsty bitch! In this tier you get everything in the Lonely Heart and Don't Pull Over tiers, PLUS:
  • One (1) Weekly VIDEO Watch-a-long: It's our own version of Pillow (Biter) Talk--edited for your pleasure! Feel like you're sitting on the couch beside Mattie & Poodle as they react to a vintage episode for the first time, shade the classic couples, and talk & sing about crap that is completely unrelated...GayDD is REAL, ya'll.
  • The Sissy SPOTLIGHT--Have you always wanted to rant about 90 Day cast members? Have a gripe about your partner? Is one of your kids is always being a dick? OR, want to read US on a topic? Well, here's your CHANCE! With this tier, you can leave a 1-minute audio message about 90 Day or ANYTHING on our google voicemail (you'll get the number via Patreon email), and we'll choose our favorite to play each WEEK
  • A Monthly Youtube LIVE with the 90DGAYS! Mattie and Poodle will be coming at you LIVE on Youtube once a month! We'll answer your questions, give some shout-outs, and there most certainly will be SINGING!
  • 20% OFF Merch Store (code will be emailed)
  • And EVERYTHING in the previous tiers



About Reality Gays

OMG! YOU CAME AT US! It's our Patreon, y'all! This is where you can get exclusive bonus episodes, unfiltered video Watch-a-long's, and discounts on that sweet Sissy Swag.

Jake Anthony and Matt Marr are two Southern Queens who absolutely love TLC's 90 Day Fiancé. If you've been looking for your gay BFFs to dish this show...well you're welcome. Matt is a clinical psychologist, while Jake is a life-coach and teacher. And they both are shady queens who are boggled at the insane ways some of these people search for love in this world. What's going on up there, y'all? Follow the gays: Jake @jakeitorfakeit & Matt @theMattMarr 

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