The Dildorks

is creating Dorky Discourse on Sex, Dating, and Masturbating

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Get access to our private Discord community, where you can chat about sex, kink, dating, and more, with other Dildorks listeners (plus the hosts and our partners!). You’ll also get access to all of our past Highpotheticals episodes on Patreon.
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For Your Ears Only

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Get all previous perks PLUS a monthly bonus episode in which we chat more informally about what’s going on in our sex and dating lives.
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Get all previous perks PLUS we’ll mention your name on every episode while you’re supporting us at this level, AND you can ask us up to 1 specific sex/dating/etc. question per month and we’ll send you a thoughtful answer.
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About The Dildorks

Who Are the Dildorks?

In 2015, Bex Caputo and Kate Sloan finally met in person at a sex bloggers’ retreat, after quietly creeping each other’s blogs and tweets forever. Our connection was instant, but it wasn’t fully cemented until we had an impromptu threesome with a mutual friend at the Playground Conference a few months later. Chatting sexual ethics and penis preferences over mac and cheese that night, it became abundantly clear that we were brain twins, best friends, and total sex nerds.

We started the Dildorks podcast because we’re bored of media that depicts sex as “naughty,” mysterious, gross, indecent, or self-explanatory. We believe sex is endlessly fascinating and that there’s always more to talk about and think about, if you keep digging and stay curious. Our sexual journeys have led us through countless kinks, experiences, and self-discoveries, and we’re excited to keep growing as sex nerds and as people!

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We'd love to have merch available for our fans (and who are we kidding, we also want to sport all the Dildork-y Gear) but that costs dollars. Once we're making $30/episode we'll be able to get some designs up so you can all show your Dildork pride!
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