Amy Norton

is creating sex education and smut for everyone.

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Hello! Thank you so much for visiting and for your support.

Who Am I?

Hello! I’m Amy, and I run the website Coffee & Kink. I'm a sex and relationships writer, adult product reviewer, erotica author and occasional speaker/educator.

Why sex writing?

Because I find sexuality endlessly fascinating and I think sex has the power to change the world.

The sex education most of us receive is woefully lacking – if we get any at all. This means we have generations of adults who don’t understand their bodies and who live under the enormous weight of needless sexual shame. We can fix this. We need to fix it. We need to fix it yesterday.

I want to encourage open dialogue about sex. I want accurate, shame-free, pleasure-centric information for everyone. I want informed, enthusiastic and ongoing consent to be recognised as a minimum standard. I want everyone who wants them to have access to great sex and amazing relationships.

Why Should You Support Me?

  • You'll get some shiny rewards and exclusive content! And also...
  • I love doing this work, but there are only so many hours in the day and it is time consuming and tiring. Some financial reward helps me to keep going, avoid burnout, and dedicate more hours in my busy life towards this stuff. 
  • It will help me towards my eventual goal of going freelance as a writer/educator/etc, which means I can do more great things, create more lovely content for you folks, and hopefully change the world a little bit with sex positivity.
  • Writing and other creative work is WORK. If you enjoy the things an artist creates, you should consider paying for it - even if only a tiny contribution, it all means so much to me!
  • The blog is and always will be free. Your support will help to keep that viable and ensure I can continue to prioritise it. 
  • It will help me to pay for the things I need to work: web hosting, travel to conferences, books, coffee, my stationery habit...

Thank you for your support! Please pick your reward level and pledge now if you can.

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I'm aiming to bring in $500 (approximately £400) per month from Patreon, which will allow me to dedicate significantly more time to this work.
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