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Being comfortable with uncertainty gives me peace of mind. Trying to force certainty in the face of uncertainty has cause me great amounts of stress in the past. My mind was often consumed with what will happen to me when I die, is my wife okay, will I continue to make money through my business. All of this caused me anxiety, and it caused me to miss the joy that is this moment. I am no longer afraid to say "I don't know." Most of my life I though when someone used these words it made them sound unintelligent, but I now know that no one knows the answers to all of life's mysteries. By accepting that some things are simply out of my control, it allows me to live a more productive life!

Do you work to make yourself miserable?

00:11 - I though I was a reasonable and rational person.

1:40 - For most of my life, I was a know-it-all.

1:58 - Then, I found alcohol.

2:38 - It takes work to be an opinionated person.

4:56 - Once I joined a support group I started to become aware that I was making myself miserable.

5:25 - I would often plan my drinking routine to accommodate a hangover.

7:15 - I used to look for reasons to get angry.

12:32 - A good husband talks to his wife when he is having a bad time.

13:35 - I create the mental state I have, positive or negative.

15:01 - I ask for how I can be of service through prayer.

17:03 - The only choice we have is to put out positive or negative energy.

You will have what you need when you need it! You might not have it before it is time, or before you are ready for it. I have struggled most of my life wanting things before I actually needed them. For example, as early as 1st or 2nd grade I already wanted to find and be with my future wife. However, I didn't need a wife in high school or college, much less elementary school! Still I agonized myself over not being in a wonderful relationship. Today, I am thankful for my wife and newborn daughter because I truly need them, now.

I like to think of this body as a worker drone because then things aren't so personal, sort of like an ant on an anthill. When I talk about what I have and the things I own, I will ultimately be disappointed because those things will eventually fade away. Knowing that I was put this planet for a purpose helps me to live a better and more productive life of service!

0 to 1 is the biggest step I take each day. Especially when having a child, going from zero kids to one kid is the biggest step. Most people fail to accomplish their goals in life because they are unwilling to take the first step. Everyday I see people that want to start a YouTube channel or start their own business online, but they are unwilling to publish their first video or get started on their website. Once you take the first step, it gets much easier to accomplish whatever it is you want to do in life. Thank you for taking the time to be here with me, and I appreciate your feedback!

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How I quickly notice and fix my bad mood, today. The first step if you want to fix your bad mood is to honestly identify where your mood is. Most of the time you will be in a bad mood because you are mad at someone or the rest of the world. The world is just fine the way it is, and all you can do is control your attitude regarding it. The main mistake I made in the past was turning to alcohol to change my mood. While this provided temporary relief, it didn't solve the problems I had. Today I am thankful I no longer try to change my mood, but instead try to understand the attitude I have regarding the outside world, and adapt to it.

What would I tell my daughter about life if I never got the chance to say it in person? What if she never gets the chance to get to know her dad as a kid or an adult? Today, I felt it was important to make a video to tell her what I would like to tell her about life in case something were to happen to me. No matter what happens to your mother or I, you are inseparable from us. You are half your mom and half you dad, and you can never lose us. I lost my dad last year, but his voice is still inside of me. I suppose the main thing I would like to tell my daughter is you are life. Thank you for taking the time to be here with me, and I appreciate your feedback!

Dealing with people can be challenging! In fact, it is normal to struggle with other people in your life. The best thing I can do when dealing with other people is control my attitude, and go into every situation with a positive attitude. I have noticed that my own attitude and actions can very easily rub off on other people and effect how they in turn act. Treat others as you want to be treated! Thank you for taking the time to be here with me, and I appreciate your feedback!

What can I accomplish in my life that will not fade away? What can I do that will not disappear someday? I am thankful to have been asked this question in my productivity course on Udemy, and I will do my best to answer it for you today. My biggest accomplishment is here with me today. My wife and I are blessed to have welcomed our first child in to the world, but even we as people eventually fade away. Everything we accomplish will eventually fade away, and it is not worth ruining today to obtain something else that will fade.

Arguing with what is, is completely insane. To disagree with how thing are, right in this moment, is crazy. However things are this moment is simply a fact, and arguing over them will only make you miserable. Right at this moment there is an airplane flying over my house. The noise used to utterly annoy me when i would be making a video, but I have come to accept it. I am thankful to be in a spiritual place where I can accept things for the way they are. Thank you for taking the time to be here with me, and I appreciate your feedback.

Repairing the damage I cause in relationships makes life so much easier! If you want to have great relationships in your life, the easiest thing you can do is to repair the damage you cause within the relationship. This is helpful because you alone have the control to make the repairs, and it doesn't require anyone else. It is also important to keep in mind that damage is caused not only by words, but actions and body language as well. I want to thank you for taking the time to be here with me, and I appreciate your feedback!

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I am grateful today to know the value of aiming to have a neutral mood, where peace, love, and joy are in the background. Now this is not to say I feel apathetic, I simply try to avoid emotional highs and lows, and try to achieve balance and stability with my emotions. In the past, my idea of fun was to reach the highest levels of euphoria, where I would do anything to feel better about myself. However, what goes up must come down and these emotional highs were often followed by depression. I am grateful that today I can find balance. Thank you for taking the time to be here with me, and I appreciate your feedback!

Have you been struggling to move on from your last failure in life? This is something I am all too familiar with, as my past failures have haunted me most of my life. I am grateful to have received this question from a student in one of my Udemy courses, and I am happy to share with you how I overcome failure.

Have struggled to feel like you are enough? I have struggled with this a lot and now I do not have to each day. Maybe this video will give you the chance to see that you are just perfect how you are today.

My wife and I are grateful to have welcomed Madeleine, our first child, in to the world last week! One of the main things I realized since having her, is I have had a lot of my own problems much longer than I ever imagined. It seems most of my life I lived very much like an infant complete with getting angry when I did not get my way and going on a hunger strike when Mom tried to change me to bottle feeding. Thank you for taking the time to be here with me, and I appreciate your feedback!

Being grateful for the bad things that almost happen gives me great joy each day. One example is when you narrowly avoid getting in a car accident. If I was in this situation in the past, I would immediately be upset and maybe even cuss the person out. Now, I am thankful to have avoided an accident all together. Thank you for taking the time to be here with me, and I appreciate you feedback!

Are you reluctant to try new things? The fear I have when trying new things is ridiculous! I used to avoid doing new things because of the underlying fear I had, but now I look at it and go about doing things that feel right. Today, I have the chance to look at these fears and see whether they are helping me or hurting me. Thank you for taking the time to be here with me, and I appreciate your feedback.

Have you made it in life? The idea of making it is an illusion, and I am grateful to have the chance to share this with you today. You do not have to make it to have a wonderful life. In fact, you don't even have to leave today to have a fulfilling life.

Your pain, failure, and mistakes can help others who are currently experiencing them. I attribute a large amount of my success to the support group I meet with each day. It is a relief to see that you are not alone in your struggles, and that others have been in your shoes in the past. It is scary to think of where I would be without the daily support I receive. Use your past mistakes to help others today!

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Do you see when you are improving at things in life? We focus so much on what we are doing wrong, that we often do not take the time to appreciate when we are making improvements in other areas. In fact, for me it often difficult to see when I am improving at something. I hope you enjoy this video, and take a second to appreciate your improvements in life!