Hello! I’m a queer, genderfluid (he/they/she) writer, artist, mentor, educator, and curious creator who is passionate about learning, sharing, and empowering others to live their best lives. I focus on intimacy, mental health, gender, sex, and practical self-care. I’m most interested in where these major components of life converge and interact with each other and our responses to them. As a trauma-informed Energy Worker*, certified Holistic Health Coach, and mental health advocate, I hold the journey my clients are navigating as sacred. I am committed to cultural humility and recognize how white supremacy, institutionalized racism, and injustice impact the body/mind and contribute to illness in many forms. I stand behind equity and try daily to do less harm than the day before.

The Magnolia group is an in depth focus on how humans connect to themselves and others through gender, sex, intimacy, sexuality, relationships, fearless authenticity, and personal growth. This group offers an online meeting once a month with a focus on being Highly Sensitive.  

I help folks create the owner’s manual to their bodies. You need to be able to solidly understand how all of your parts work, and how they work together, before others can learn how to make your system purr.

I like the metaphor of the owner’s manual for your body because you should be the one who knows the most about you, and literally own your own body, with everything spelled out clearly. And, you should be able to hand it over to someone else for limited use in all the ways that feel good to you. And, you should know you can take that manual back at any point, for any reason.

When we talk about healthy sex, we sometimes forget that we have to have our own healthy sex first. When trauma is a factor, it’s infinitely more important that you understand your needs before inviting another human into the mix.

Whether your upbringing was overtly conservative, religious, repressed, and/or misogynistic, or you were simply baked in those undertones as a human in this century, no doubt you’ve got some unlayering to do around sex, sexuality, sexual roles, gender, power roles, shame, guilt, and body image.

The Peony group is focused on using kink as a healing art from a Queer Pro-Domme perspective. Learn Kink 101 for yourself or send your partners who are new to kink here to learn. I'll be covering all the basics in 2021 with group discussions, podcasts, and workshops. Once the basics are learned, we'll write a scene and demo it. Kink can be super fun, healing, AND safe(r).

Supporting me here means you're supporting me in doing everything I'm passionate about, so THANK YOU. xo 

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Writing credits: writer.leahblooms.com