Meshed VR

is creating Adult VR Games and Simulations

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  • Access to "Teaser" builds of Virt-a-Mate. "Teaser" builds unlock nearly all capabilities except the following limitations: 1. You cannot save scenes or packages 2. You cannot create new animations 3. You cannot add new atoms (objects) to the scene
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  • Access to "Entertainer" builds of Virt-a-Mate. "Entertainer" builds unlock the ability to save scenes and packages, allowing you to save your changes and share with others. "Entertainer" builds have the following limitations: 1. You cannot create new animations 2. You cannot add new atoms (objects) to the scene
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  • Access to "Creator" builds of Virt-a-Mate. "Creator" builds unlock the ability to 1. Create new animations 2. Add new atoms (objects) to the scene. Limitless possibilities.
  • Plus all previous rewards
Includes Discord benefits



About Meshed VR

Who is MeshedVR?

MeshedVR is a small indie developer that enjoys advancing state-of-the-art technology in the upcoming field of VR. Our 1st project has focused on advancing character simulation, and a natural outlet of that work is a VR sex simulator! Our Patreon will therefore be dedicated to creating adult VR games utilizing the technology that we have developed and to continue to push the cutting-edge of what is possible to bring you the most realistic sex simulator possible. Virt-a-Mate (VaM for short) is our first sex simulator project designed to meet that goal.

IMPORTANT! Requirements for running Virt-A-Mate (VaM)

VaM requires a Windows PC (Windows 10 recommended) with a DirectX11 compatible video card to run. VaM does not run on MacOS, and does not run natively on Oculus Quest. Oculus Quest can work if used with Oculus Link cable and system. VaM was built for VR, but can also run in a desktop mode. VaM has steep PC requirements due to nature of extensive body physics system and simulated hair and clothing systems. Recommended: Intel i7-7XXX series or higher (3.6 Ghz or higher), Nvidia 1080Ti GPU or higher, 16GB RAM or higher. VaM favors high single-thread CPU performance for overall framerate, but does utilize all CPU cores to an extent. In many cases today, this favors Intel CPUs. VaM hair and cloth simulation also tend to run better on Nvidia GPUs at this time due to how they seem to handle computer shaders more efficiently. A goal of the 2.X version of VaM it to be optimized for a broader range of hardware and offer performance scaling features to enable use on lower-end hardware.

What is Virt-A-Mate (VaM for short)?

Virt-A-Mate is our first project. It is an adults-only virtual reality sex simulator and sandbox. The goal of this project was to make realistic characters using a combination of realistic joint physics, soft body physics, skin-accurate collisions, and advanced rendering techniques. The characters can come alive by capturing and storing motion capture from off-the-shelf VR controllers like the Vive controllers or Oculus Touch controllers. The characters can react to your movements or objects you control in a realistic manner.

Virt-A-Mate in it's current state is meant as a creative tool for making adult content, but plenty of ready-to-use content is available from the community on the official Discord server (you have option to connect to Discord server after backing) or at the upcoming VaM Hub site.

Virt-A-Mate also includes a desktop mode for those without VR and also for making it easier to make some content. A lot of users use desktop mode to create a significant portion of a scene and then use VR mode to experience their creation.

New Users Getting Started:

Absolute Beginners Wiki Page

Downloading VaM:

Newer versions of VaM require the use of an updater. This public post will be kept up-to-date with latest information on downloading and installing through the updater:

Older Releases Direct Downloads:

Release 1.17: Mega Torrent
Release 1.16: WeTransfer Mega Torrent
Release 1.15.1: Mega
Release 1.15: WeTransfer Mega
Release 1.14: WeTransfer
Release 1.13: WeTransfer Mega Torrent thanks to community member DJ!
Release 1.12: WeTransfer Mega
Release 1.11: Mega
Release 1.9: WeTransfer Mega
Release 1.8: WeTransfer Mega
Release 1.7: WeTransfer Mega
Release 1.6: WeTransfer Mega
Release 1.5.5: WeTransfer Mega
Release 1.5.1: WeTransfer link Mega link  
Release 1.4: WeTransfer link
Release 1.3: WeTransfer link
Release 1.2: link
Release 1.1: link
Release 1.0: link

Tutorial Videos thanks to community member JustLookinForNothin:

YouTube VAM-Tutorials

How-To-Guide (work in progress):

Community Created Scenes and Presets:

Connect to the official Discord after pledging on your apps page in your profile. The new Hub site is an even better way to connect and share:

VaM Hub

Development Plans:

Video Hub:

Older Videos:

What does the future hold?

Longer term, and with your support, MeshedVR will invest time working on:
  • Fluid physics
  • Clothing physics
  • Improved hair simulation
  • Improved skinning system and support for Daz3D Generation 3 and 8 models and other models from other sources
  • Improved skin physics
  • Community sharing system

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