Sinclair Sexsmith

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Community: Support Sinclair's Writing

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  • The password to the private journal posts on Sugarbutch
  • Access to the Patreon stream where I keep you up-to-date with my projects and writings
  • Access to the Sugarbutch Discord, chat channels about dominance, submission, gender, and more
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Webinars: Monthly Live Workshops on D/s

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  • Invitation to a live monthly webinar — only for patrons! Topics like: protocol, punishments & funishments, D/s and polyamory, D/s and mental health, being a feminist dominant, being a strong submissive, vulnerability, pushing your edges

Plus benefits from the previous tier.

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Mentorship: One-on-one Chats

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  • One-on-one half-hour session with Sinclair monthly. This could be a quickie tarot reading, exploring a question you have, or just chatting.

Plus benefits from $1 and $5 tiers

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About Sinclair Sexsmith

Patreon has helped to create a little group of people who I trust with my work.

I feel excited to update with what’s going on with me, and I love hearing from all of you and your work and lives, too. It feels like an inner circle of friends, and I’m ever grateful for that support.

Thanks for coming by!

This is a tool where you can support my writing and D/s education work. With a donation for every story, essay, journal entry, or other thing that I make, you get access to the password for the Sugarbutch private posts, a private Discord server, and updates on all the behind the scene happenings.

Here's what I do:

Writing: Gender, Sexuality, Kink, and Relationships

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I primarily publish on Sugarbutch (my main writing hub) and Body Trust (my spiritual community), and I post 5-7 writings monthly supported through Patreon.

D/s Education: Classes & Books

Through The Academy of D/s Confidence, my partner and boy rife and I run webinars, create products, and offer coaching about consensual authority exchange relationships.

Thanks to the patrons, we are offering one webinar monthly focused on D/s relationships, usually the 4th Saturday of the month, 10am-12pm PT / 1-3pm ET. These are for patrons at the $5+ tiers.

In 2019, the webinar schedule is: 
  • May 25 – D/s Playground Unit 1: Bondage
  • June 29 – Self Growth Through Dominance
  • July 20 – D/s Playground Unit 2: Discipline
  • August 24 – D/s-calator
  • September 20 – D/s Playground Unit 3: Service
  • October 28 – Doctor D/s
  • November 25 – D/s Playground Unit 4: Masochism & Sadism
  • December TBA – Protocol Game (intensive)

We are also teaching in a lot of other places in 2019. Here's the list & our travel schedule.

Do you want to support me, but don’t want to/can’t pledge here on Patreon?

Thank you! I totally understand that sometimes, it’s just not possible to spend even a few more dollars a month. I’ve been there.

Thank you for keeping me writing!

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I will record audio for 12 dirty erotica short stories, and release a full "season" of a podcast for free! (Wouldn't that be fun?)
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