a difference between men and women:
This is not science, not based on scientific polls. It's not even observation; it's not something I picked up in my reading. It's just my experience of having known a few women well.

There is one thing women like, that men don't like: 

a hug when you are angry. Not when she is angry at you; when she is angry at someone else. 

I could name names, but I don't like to drop names. Monica, Ruth, Deb, Anja. 

It's something that women like that men don't like. 

Not universally true; generally true. 


My father's advice:

https://www.patreon.com/posts/15330305