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A Vacation from Emotional Labor
http://freethoughtblogs.com/brutereason/2015/07/29/a-vacation-from-emotional-labor/


I wrote some more personal follow-up thoughts to my post on emotional labor from a few days ago.


"Even if you are Very Weird, and Entirely Too Selfish or Fragile, you still get to set boundaries for your relationships and to try to find ones that work for you. Yes, if you have more needs or dealbreakers than the average person, then you will find, on average, fewer compatible friends and partners. That’s rough, but that’s okay. That doesn’t make you “wrong.” That doesn’t make it okay for others to ignore your communicated boundaries because they expect or wish that they were different, more statistically normal."

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