secretladyspider

is creating writing about asexuality and creating videos about pop culture

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yo you kids are cool

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Don't think he knows about second breakfast.

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Corvids are heckin' smart.

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Mysterious folks over here.

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Powerful, but not too powerful. 

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You were popular in high school and you still are now.

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Your wings look flashy, but they're actually very useful. Also flashy. 

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About secretladyspider

Hello, and welcome to my patreon! 
I am a young writer who advocates for demisexuality - the part of the asexual spectrum that entails sexual attraction that only happens once a close emotional bond is formed! This is the type of content I create most often. 

I also make youtube videos about pop culture and mental health, and make vlogs about my own demi/gray ace experiences (among other things). 

I still create art, but my own patreon is not focused around it anymore. If you look through old posts, you'll be able to see it. 

It isn't always possible to have a new thing out every week, but I pour everything I have into what does come out, as often as I can. 

Should things change or should I have a major life event that prevents me from creating one week, patrons will be updated. You can also keep up to date with me on Twitter, where I am often active. 

If you are here to discuss sponsorships, partnerships, or to discuss the possibility of my writing for you, email me directly here.

Patrons get early access to my videos and are listed in the credits and are linked to my written posts about asexuality & aromanticism (though not early, as it was put to a vote and the majority ruled that they didn't want early access, just links to the work). 

Getting listed in the credits for my videos begins at the $1 tier, as I believe that all patrons should be credited for helping me be able to continue creating. As time goes on, if I get enough Patrons, my next step will be in paying for the captioning of all my YouTube videos in order to make them more accessible. 

Thank you so much for being here and for supporting my work! 

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