Steve is creating resources for dating, jobs, housing, & personal growth
4

patrons

$23
per month
On a daily basis, people ask me for advice on everything from dating, to job hunting, to living cheaply around the world, to personal development, to intimacy. Never a dull moment. But, in helping so many people 1v1, I rarely get the chance to condense what I learn into helpful posts and action guides that others can use.

Creating connection is what I do. It’s what I live for. I host salonsdinnersmeetups, and coworking sessions nearly every night of the week across multiple cities in order to bring people together from all over the world to share their stories and build new friendships.

I want to keep doing this forever. I want to spend even more of my time creating the tools, resources, and events that people need in to become better connected.

And I’m using Patreon to make this happen.

When you contribute $1, $5, $100 to my connective efforts, you’re ultimately enabling me to do a better job of connecting YOU to anything you’ll need in the future, be that helpful content, a toolkit, or a new apartment, roommate, job, or hell, even the love of your life.

Let’s get this started.


P.S. - Look forward to more content and updates coming soon! In the meantime, you can read up on what I've been writing about these topics on my Medium page, or check out specific articles below:

Dating
The Friendship-First Approach to Dating
The Friendship-First Approach to Dating, Part 2: Action Steps
Breaking into Nonmonogamy
How do I have the “Are We Exclusive” talk?
How To Say “No” Without Lies, Flaking, or Fadeaways
How to Get Over a Breakup
Add This Line to Your Tinder Profile Right Now

Housing/Jobs/Networking
A New Yorker’s Guide to Finding Apartments and Roommates
5 Secret Tools for the Superconnector
How to Land a Job at a Hot Startup

My Press Mentions
It's Time to Rethink Tech Recruiting - Technical.ly
The Entrepreneurs of Love - Marketwatch
What Your Psychologist Wants You to Know About Your Dating Apps - Mic.com
True Love Is Waiting for You on Uber Yelp Quizup and All Your Other Apps - Fast Company
The Biggest Misconception About Polyamorous Relationships Finally Answered - Mic.com
7 Polyamorous People on Overcoming Jealousy - Bustle
LSD Microdosing - Esquire
One Epic Chart Proves There's No Right Way to Be in a Relationship - Mic.com
Tiers
Pledge $1 or more per month
5 patrons
"JUST FRIENDS" STATUS. You'll become part of my private Patreon-only list that gets to view and vote on my drafts and stories before they're posted.
Pledge $5 or more per month
4 patrons
COFFEE DATE STATUS. Everything above, plus -- I've been doing some incredible podcast interviews and coffee chats with fascinating people. If you support me at this level, I'll give you access to those podcast episodes and any video content that comes out of my chats and speaking gigs.
Pledge $10 or more per month
1 patron
NETFLIX & CHILL STATUS. Everything above, plus I'll answer any 1 of your dating / relationship questions each month in the form of a personal email.
Pledge $25 or more per month
0 patrons
"FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS" STATUS. Everything above, plus more when we're actually exclusive. Just kidding. I'll make you a mix tape of my favorite readings, podcasts, and videos from the month and send it your way.
Pledge $50 or more per month
0 patrons
"WE'RE EXCLUSIVE" STATUS. You'll gain exclusive access to my tutorial webinars where I share strategies for dating, finding apartments/roommates, job hunting, and establishing friendships and communities in new cities.
Pledge $100 or more per month
0 of 20 patrons
"MARRIAGE MATERIAL" STATUS. Everything above, plus you'll be invited to join the rollout of my private superconnectors group on Slack. We use the group in order to scale up our connective capabilities because each of us gets immediately notified if we're the best person to help. By leveraging the networks of superconnectors, we can do seriously epic things, like getting personalized intros to virtually any founder or CEO within minutes.
Pledge $500 or more per month
0 of 10 patrons
SUGARMOMMA STATUS. Everything above, plus we can work together over biweekly mastermind talks where I can brief you on the tech I'm building, the content I'm producing, and the communities I'm growing. We can also discuss opportunities for much larger collaboration.
Goals
$23 of $1,000 per month
I will take all the things I've only been writing about and convert them into a series of helpful guides on Youtube.
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On a daily basis, people ask me for advice on everything from dating, to job hunting, to living cheaply around the world, to personal development, to intimacy. Never a dull moment. But, in helping so many people 1v1, I rarely get the chance to condense what I learn into helpful posts and action guides that others can use.

Creating connection is what I do. It’s what I live for. I host salonsdinnersmeetups, and coworking sessions nearly every night of the week across multiple cities in order to bring people together from all over the world to share their stories and build new friendships.

I want to keep doing this forever. I want to spend even more of my time creating the tools, resources, and events that people need in to become better connected.

And I’m using Patreon to make this happen.

When you contribute $1, $5, $100 to my connective efforts, you’re ultimately enabling me to do a better job of connecting YOU to anything you’ll need in the future, be that helpful content, a toolkit, or a new apartment, roommate, job, or hell, even the love of your life.

Let’s get this started.


P.S. - Look forward to more content and updates coming soon! In the meantime, you can read up on what I've been writing about these topics on my Medium page, or check out specific articles below:

Dating
The Friendship-First Approach to Dating
The Friendship-First Approach to Dating, Part 2: Action Steps
Breaking into Nonmonogamy
How do I have the “Are We Exclusive” talk?
How To Say “No” Without Lies, Flaking, or Fadeaways
How to Get Over a Breakup
Add This Line to Your Tinder Profile Right Now

Housing/Jobs/Networking
A New Yorker’s Guide to Finding Apartments and Roommates
5 Secret Tools for the Superconnector
How to Land a Job at a Hot Startup

My Press Mentions
It's Time to Rethink Tech Recruiting - Technical.ly
The Entrepreneurs of Love - Marketwatch
What Your Psychologist Wants You to Know About Your Dating Apps - Mic.com
True Love Is Waiting for You on Uber Yelp Quizup and All Your Other Apps - Fast Company
The Biggest Misconception About Polyamorous Relationships Finally Answered - Mic.com
7 Polyamorous People on Overcoming Jealousy - Bustle
LSD Microdosing - Esquire
One Epic Chart Proves There's No Right Way to Be in a Relationship - Mic.com

Recent posts by Steve

Tiers
Pledge $1 or more per month
5 patrons
"JUST FRIENDS" STATUS. You'll become part of my private Patreon-only list that gets to view and vote on my drafts and stories before they're posted.
Pledge $5 or more per month
4 patrons
COFFEE DATE STATUS. Everything above, plus -- I've been doing some incredible podcast interviews and coffee chats with fascinating people. If you support me at this level, I'll give you access to those podcast episodes and any video content that comes out of my chats and speaking gigs.
Pledge $10 or more per month
1 patron
NETFLIX & CHILL STATUS. Everything above, plus I'll answer any 1 of your dating / relationship questions each month in the form of a personal email.
Pledge $25 or more per month
0 patrons
"FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS" STATUS. Everything above, plus more when we're actually exclusive. Just kidding. I'll make you a mix tape of my favorite readings, podcasts, and videos from the month and send it your way.
Pledge $50 or more per month
0 patrons
"WE'RE EXCLUSIVE" STATUS. You'll gain exclusive access to my tutorial webinars where I share strategies for dating, finding apartments/roommates, job hunting, and establishing friendships and communities in new cities.
Pledge $100 or more per month
0 of 20 patrons
"MARRIAGE MATERIAL" STATUS. Everything above, plus you'll be invited to join the rollout of my private superconnectors group on Slack. We use the group in order to scale up our connective capabilities because each of us gets immediately notified if we're the best person to help. By leveraging the networks of superconnectors, we can do seriously epic things, like getting personalized intros to virtually any founder or CEO within minutes.
Pledge $500 or more per month
0 of 10 patrons
SUGARMOMMA STATUS. Everything above, plus we can work together over biweekly mastermind talks where I can brief you on the tech I'm building, the content I'm producing, and the communities I'm growing. We can also discuss opportunities for much larger collaboration.