We Are Self-Centered

is creating relationship advice and break up survival guides

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The First Steps
per month

Begin your journey towards a healthier self, and healthier love.  

This tier offers healing, breakup and relationship advice, educational resources, and Nikki's observations of life in the dating wild.

Making Moves
per month

Your best relationship, faster.

In this tier you'll get a personal Q&A with Nikki where she will use her expertise as a masters-level relationship consultant to answer your dating or break up question.  Additionally, you'll get an intimate look into Nikki's own day to day relationship lessons, struggles and successes as she embarks on big journeys like moving, motherhood and marriage.

Your Best Life
per month

Tools to thrive in life & love, custom designed for you.

At our highest tier, we will customize a healing plan just for you.  Nikki holds a MA in Psychology from Columbia university and is a seasoned healing coach in NYC.  You will get two phone calls with Nikki per month to so you can share your updates and we can monitor your progress.  Personalized work can included meditations designed specifically for you, journaling prompts, or self reflective assessments.  

This is not a one size fits all program, it is designed specifically to fit your needs and heal your heart.


We Are Self-Centered is a healing space to powerfully shift your relationships to your exes, to yourself, and to current or future partners.  Our focus is a combination of modern psychology, emotional wellbeing, and positive mindfulness to arrive at our best self with renewed love, resilience, and a tangible skill set to create safe and fulfilling relationships.

Our Patreon page was launched as a resource for all people who are not able to attend our in-person retreats.  You will receive personalized content and Q&A's with our team to guide you.  

We Are Self-Centered is founded by Nikki Carter who holds a Masters in Psychology from Columbia University, where she focused on mind body science and positive psychology in couples.  For over 10 years Nikki has taught meditation, yoga and led retreats focused on wellness, women, and relationships.

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