Loving BDSM

Loving BDSM

Creating content about power exchange relationships.

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Proud Crickets

$2
per month
YOU are a proud cricket! That's why you're here!  For joining us and supporting the work we do, you get virtual squishy boob hugs, access to the behind the scenes podcast, monthly live Q&A, early access to video content, and polls to let us know what you want us to do. You also get a special discount code for the Kinkery and to the Loving BDSM Etsy shop!

You will be charged when you first sign up & then on the 1st of every month going forward. You can stop at any time.
Includes Discord benefits

Curious Crickets

$5
per month
You get virtual squishy boob hugs, everything in the $2 tier, and the opportunity to ask questions early for our monthly Q&A. That way your question can get answered even if you can't make the live stream. The video is always available to watch later.


You will be charged when you first sign up & then on the 1st of every month going forward. You can stop at any time.
Includes Discord benefits

Spotlight Crickets

$10
per month
You get the virtual hugs, the access to the podcast and videos, and the rest of it PLUS you'll be credited in the show notes on podcast episodes and at the end of shorter YouTube videos. We'll use your Fet/kink name, if you prefer, or just your first name, last initial. You'll also get a free copy of new workbooks and digital downloads valued at $10 or less when we release them on the Loving BDSM Etsy shop plus a discount code to our Etsy shop!


You will be charged when you first sign up & then on the 1st of every month going forward. You can stop at any time.
Includes Discord benefits

Merch Crickets

$25
per month
At this level, you get all of the other stuff in every other tier PLUS new merch every three months. You must maintain your membership for three months to qualify for the first item -- to receive more merch, you must maintain your membership for at least three months at a time. For 2022, merch will be based off Loving BDSM artwork we've been gifted as well as our own logo. You'll also get free copies of any digital product we sell on the Loving BDSM Etsy shop plus a serious discount for all other products!

You will be charged when you first sign up & then on the 1st of every month going forward. You can stop at any time.
Includes Discord benefits
Exclusive Merch
Fulfilled by Patreon
Includes
  • Exclusive Mini Print - Every three months, you'll get new Loving BDSM merch!
  • Exclusive T-shirt - Every three months, you'll get new Loving BDSM merch!
  • Exclusive Organic Tote Bag - Every three months, you'll get new Loving BDSM merch!
  • Exclusive Mug - Every three months, you'll get new Loving BDSM merch!

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patrons

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About Loving BDSM

Loving BDSM is the love child of Kayla Lords and John Brownstone. We help kinksters like you have happy, healthy power exchange relationships. And becoming one of kinky patrons helps us do that, so thank you!

How do we do what we do? Let us count the ways...

  • Weekly podcast episodes that are live streamed on YouTube
  • Weekly (mostly) educational videos on YouTube
  • The Loving BDSM website
  • Answering dozens of DMs and emails from kinksters seeking advice and guidance
What can we do with more help? More short-form podcast episodes, more website content, more videos, more time to answer questions, more, more, more. 

We would do this whether we made money from it or not, but the reality is that all of this takes time and money. Which is why we appreciate our kinky patrons/#proudcrickets so damn much!

We hope you'll help us continue to spread good information about kink and BDSM, share more smut, and help as many people as possible.
Goals
231 of 500 patrons
Once we're here, we can start to add closed captions to old videos and transcriptions for podcast episodes. We can also add another type of content to our week -- podcast, video? Not sure yet, but something. We'll let you help us figure that out!
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