Sex & the Gay Christian

Sex & the Gay Christian

resources to help Queer Christians embrace a healthy sexuality.

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I truly appreciate your support at this level. In addition to the closed community, monthly polls, behind-the-scenes reflections, and an open ear for your questions and comments, we invite you to a quarterly conversation on sexuality and spirituality. Plus, you will receive merchandise every three months for a year (details below).
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About Sex & the Gay Christian

Sex & the Gay Christian, hosted by spiritual director Jon Carl Lewis, is a sex-positive initiative to help LGBTQIA+ Christians embrace their own, healthy sexuality, make more satisfying sexual decisions, and create a personal sexual ethic to inform and empower an abundant life in Christ---sex included. Through resources and community Sex & the Gay Christian seeks to help Queer Chrisitans make sexual and relational decisions that fit their Christian values, and integrate their sexual and spiritual lives.

Contemporary American culture seems to offer only two alternatives for sexual expression. One is hookup culture, driven by a materialist consumerism. The other is purity culture, a highly restrictive and damaging approach to sexuality which has left many wounded over the past few decades. Sex & the Gay Christian offers an alternative: a way of sexual decision-making and sexual ethics that takes your deepest values and your unique personality into consideration to construct a sex life you want---one that resonates with your walk with Christ.
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